Appreciating Interdependence

Ages 5 to 6 Systems / Compassion

How much of your day was made possible by someone else.

Let’s Experience It

Yangchen helps set the table at home. Her mom cooks dinner. Her dad washes the dishes. At school, Yangchen’s friend holds the door. Another friend shares crayons. Yangchen thinks about all the people who help her every day.

What’s Happening?

Yangchen is learning that we all need each other. This is called interdependence. It means we are all connected. No one can do everything alone. We all help each other.

Families work together. Parents take care of children. Children help with small jobs. Grandparents share stories. Everyone has a role. When families work together, everyone is happier.

Our classroom is a community too. We need each other to learn and play. Friends help us when we are stuck. We help friends when they need us. We share supplies. We take turns with toys. This sharing and cooperation makes our classroom a good place.

Even our food connects us to others. Farmers grow vegetables. Bakers make bread. Trucks bring food to stores. Many people work so we can eat. This is like a food chain. Many hands help our food reach our plates.

Why It Matters

When we see how we are connected, we feel grateful. We thank the people who help us. We want to help others too. We take better care of things.

Sharing and cooperating feels good. It makes everyone happier. It builds friendships. When we help each other, everything works better.

Try It Yourself

Helper Hunt:

  1. Think of your morning today.
  2. Who helped you wake up?
  3. Who made your food?
  4. Who brought you to school?
  5. Draw a picture of your helpers.

Remember

Check yourself

15 questions on this topic. Nothing is saved and nothing is sent anywhere.

These were written for the next age band up — the curriculum has no set of its own for this age.

  1. Who helps your family have food to eat?

  2. In Tibet, yaks give milk for families and families take care of the yaks. What does this show?

  3. Your class is building a big block castle together. Why is it good to work together?

  4. Plants need sun and water to grow. What do plants give us?

  5. When you share your crayons with a friend and they share their markers with you, what happens?

  6. Prayer flags in Tibet have five colors that represent different elements: blue (sky), white (clouds), red (fire), green (water), yellow (earth). What does this teach us?

  7. Who helps make your clothes?

  8. Bees visit flowers to get nectar. What do flowers get from bees?

  9. In Tibet, neighbors help each other build homes. Why do they work together?

  10. Your teacher needs help passing out papers. What happens when you help?

  11. Why do we need garbage collectors?

  12. What happens if no one takes care of the classroom fish?

  13. In a soccer game, why does the team pass the ball to each other?

  14. Trees give us oxygen to breathe. What do we give trees?

  15. Why is it good to have friends who are different from you?

Appreciating Interdependence at other ages

The same topic, written for older and younger children. Worth a look when you are judging how far to take it.